The Lesbian Agenda Blog

Needing lube does not mean someone “isn’t wet enough.” Bodies aren’t machines that produce perfect lubrication on command. Hormones, medications, stress, menopause, neurodivergence, hydration levels, condoms, prosthetics, toys, and simply the type of stimulation happening all affect natural lubrication. For a lot of lesbians, queer women, and sapphics, lube is a tool for better intimacy. (And once you get comfortable using it, you’ll know why I’m writing a whole blog about pe